Thank God for Bed Rest

 Last week, I saw the doctor for a check-up to see how my pregnancy was going. I'm always nervous before check-ups ever since being labelled as 'at-risk', but I was a bit more worried this time around because I have been having some pelvic pains and thought maybe I've been doing too much these last couple of days. However, we were delighted to hear that my cervix was at normal length now and that my pregnancy was going well. All those weeks of being on bed rest have paid off. The first thing I said was, 'Thank you, hubby.', and the first thing hubby said was, 'Praise God!'.

 Being on bed rest certainly has its challenges, but I was surprised at how much it allowed me to focus on mental tasks. It feels like all the reserved energy from resting is being poured into my brain. I started setting goals, meditating on God's word, praying more frequently, budgeting and planning for next year. It's like that movie, 'Limitless' where Bradley Cooper swallows this pill and suddenly his brain starts working non-stop. My brain is pumping out thoughts and ideas like never before.

 Another unexpected positive side of being confined at home is how much I get to enjoy my kids. I am not rushed in the morning to take the kids to some kind of activity, so we can start the day more relaxed and happy. I started formally doing preschool at home with the kids and I get to watch how much their minds are expanding as they discover new things and experiment with different tools. We also get to just lie down and do nothing sometimes and it's so nice. I must admit, there are days when I am desperate for adult conversation after spending a whole day with them, but hearing 'I love you, mummy.' out of the blue more than makes up for it.

 I think the best part of being on bed rest is that I don't feel guilty for asking people for help. And as I receive help, I realise how much I am loved by my friends and family. My wonderful husband brings me breakfast in bed every morning and supper every night. He always makes sure I'm comfortable and does so much to help out around the house and take care of the kids even when he is busy with studies during exam times. Also, so many people have helped by praying for me, saying encouraging words, bringing meals, offering help, bringing groceries etc. that I feel so humbled. I don't think I have done anything to deserve this kind of care but I guess that's why they say, 'Best things in life are free.'

 I will still be taking it easy until week 37 of the pregnancy, but I want to thank all of my friends and family for letting me know you care. Although I can't go out and visit all of you yet, please feel free to drop by and help me expand my vocabulary beyond Dr. Seuss books.